from : https://www.raptitude.com/2019/03/patience-is-something-you-do-not-something-you-are/

do patiently—to perform a task without resentment or scrambling

It’s a straightforward matter of intending to let those most intense seconds simply happen—without succumbing to resentment or desperation

It’s just a matter of refraining from resenting reality for a short time. A little bit of mindfulness; an intentional staying-with, instead of a habitual pushing-away.

Yes to this: “Patience, as a lofty moral quality possessed by some, is a myth as far as I’m concerned.”